True love doesn’t come to you it has to be inside you.
Pretty wise and subtle, Julia! Love is not something you earn or achieve. Love is a condition of your heart, either you have this capacity inside you , either you don’t. Of course, for some people it is well hidden, but, if love naturally exists, sooner or later it will come out. Love is, otherwise it doesn’t come. If you feel something growing inside your heart either it is an emotion that will pass, either your love nature tells you to get action. But don’t mix emotions with love. There is a stability matter that makes the difference between them. And then again, don’t take routine as love either. And you know how you can do this? Imagine that everybody loves you and want to be with you. So, instead of hanging of one person, you can chose from dozen people, some of them even smarter, funnier, richer than what you have. You can actually be with one of those people, it is not a dream! Now, be honest and tell us if there was true love you felt or the fact that, instead of nothing, you chose someone, anyone!